- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
I feel so bad for all the ladies on here that have to deal with a horrible Future Mother-In-Law. I finally had a problem with mine. I am so irritated and I can’t stand the way she is acting. She is having issues with her daughter (my FSIL) and her Mother-In-Law (my fiance’s grandmother). My fiance’s father passed away a long time ago. The issues have nothing to do with me and my Fiance. We stay out of everything. A few weeks ago my Future Mother-In-Law and I were going over the guestlist for the wedding. I told her we were inviting the Future Sister-In-Law, my FI’s aunt (FI’s father’s sister) and grandmother. She was ok with it then. Yesterday, apparently there was an altercation between the Future Sister-In-Law, grandmother, and Future Mother-In-Law. I got a text saying I don’t need to invite them if I don’t want to and that they don’t really NEED to be there. I told her for the 10th time, that they are his family and we have no problem with them so we are inviting them. After hearing about all this for months I couldn’t take it anymore and told her we are inviting them and if she couldn’t act like an adult for one day and be civil then don’t come. I feel bad about it, but I really thought it needed to be said.
Why can’t adults act like adults? UGH!