- 5 years ago
- Wedding: April 2014
Hello everyone! I’m having a bit of a delima with the future in laws. My fiance was very distant about wedding planning and voiced the fact that it was all up to me and he didn’t care much about the details of our wedding. Out of the blue one day he mentioned we could move the wedding date up by 6 months and have a destination wedding in Las Vegas. He actually started getting really excited about the wedding. He was helping pick out a venue, hotel, and flight plans. He told his family we were having a Vegas wedding and they were invited. His mother said it was fine as long as we didn’t have Elvis marry us. A week or so has passed and she informed my fiance that we should have a wedding local. She talked to his father and they said they would pay for us to have a honeymoon in Vegas. I’ve met his father all of one time and he didn’t even so much as text my fiance for his birthday. He shows favor towards my fiance’s sisters and my fiance just kind of lets it go and doesn’t involve him much in his life. Since he has started negotiating with his parents, his interest in the wedding has gone back down. He told me he would let me know by the end of the month what they come up with. My fiance is a very go with the flow type of guy and I’m afraid he is just letting his parents dictate our wedding to keep peace. I am previously divorced so I feel like I should give them the wedding they want, but to be honest I can tell it isn’t what he wants and it really isn’t what I want. I’m just looing for anyone with the same experience or any input to help out on the situation. Thanks for reading my rant!