- 5 years ago
So my FMIL asked if it was okay to wear a dress that is a similar style and color as the BMs. Her’s is patterned and theirs is solid so not that big of a deal but I didn’t want to take a chance. I said no.
Weeks later she shows me a few dresses she just bought, one being the exact same one I am planning wearing to the rehearsal. It was pure coincidence.
But, she said she wanted to wear it to the rehearsal also.
So my solution is to give in and let her wear the dress that looks like the BM’s to the rehearsal and one of the OTHER ones she bought to the wedding.
She then tells me that shes actually thinking about wearing the dress we both bought, the one I am planning on wearing to the rehearsal, to the wedding. She says the only people that would know it was the same dress would be the wedding party.
I thought she was joking but now I’m not so sure. I really want to wear that dress but I don’t want to fight about it. And I’m afraid she might wear it to the bridal shower too. HELP!!! What do I do???