(Closed) FMIL dislikes me because I'm not the same race as FI!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
1042 posts
Bumble bee

mnmlove11:  First off, your Future Mother-In-Law is an asshole. No way to word it politely. I wouldn’t say anything to your Fiance, unles it’s along the lines of “Babe, once we get married you better have my back through thick or thin against your mother. If you don’t, you’ll be signing divorce papers faster than a speeding bullet. Are you prepared for that?”.

If he doesn’t stand up for you now, what makes you think he will do it when you are married? You are a unit and a team. I would never commit my life to somebody who does not feel the same. 

IF your Fiance does have your back and will support you, after the wedding is over and you come back from your lovely honeymoon and your Future Mother-In-Law is still being an asshole, call her out. Let her know that you will not tolerate her disrespect and make sure your FH makes it very clear as well.

Post # 3
423 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

This is awful. She hasn’t even met you yet, so your Fiance should know she is being very petty in why she won’t give her blessing. He needs to decide how important that is – and given that she has no real reason not to like you, hopefully her opinion isn’t too important to him. Good luck !

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