- 6 years ago
- Wedding: March 2012
Ok, ok, I’m sure there’s a ton of posts about a Future Mother-In-Law who is crazy/over protective/nosy/blah/blah/blah and yes I’d say my Future Mother-In-Law is all of those & more, but I just have to rant a little as my Fiance doesn’t seem to get it.
We live in the same small town as my FI’s family and we do everything with his parents (dinner almost every night, basic shopping, etc.). My family lives in the city an hour away. My Future Mother-In-Law & Future Father-In-Law have been involved in every single decision we have made regarding our wedding. My Future Father-In-Law is very supportive & tells us his ideas or suggestions & then says well, it’s your choice so you guys figure it out & walks away & gives us time to talk it out ourselves. My Future Mother-In-Law on the other hand wants to know everything…
So how on earth do I tell her to butt out without being rude?
Then today I made all the nail appointments for the girls & my Future Mother-In-Law decides after I made the appointments that she doesn’t want to go. I went through special effort to invite her & include her & now she doesn’t want a part of it.. Her excuse was that she has company coming in that day… It’s so frustrating to me that she wants to be a part of everything, but then decides not this…
What’d you do when you just couldn’t handle your Future Mother-In-Law any more?