(Closed) FMIL drama update/vent

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

“Feel free to comment if you wish”

I WISH!! I don’t understand these overbearing, unreasonable mothers and MILs!

Of course she is going to take it out on you, that’s her son! You must be the root of all evil, right? I say this sarcastically because the same thing happened to me! I hate her at this point because like you said, I know it hurts my husband more than he lets me believe!

And then she swears at you. There must be a bloody handbook somewhere that says, Step 33: If all else fails, swear at your FDIL or DIL. Mine called me a little bitch!

I have no further advice than what I’ve already posted on these boards except to tell you what I did and that is cut her out of my life!

UGH!

Post # 4
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1269 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I say just keep sticking to your guns!  She’ll probably come. 🙂  Did he tell her one of the other reasons is they are misbehaved?

Post # 6
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1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@organizedbride11: Honestly? I don’t consider myself having a Mother-In-Law anymore. Sad but true. And I posted on the scream thread that DH’s bday is next week and she’s not speaking to either of us.

Why in the WORLD don’t they realize that their son’s happiness is more important than them always being “right”?

Wishing you the best with her. (You’ll need it!)

Ps. Was your Fiance there when she told you to eff off?

Post # 8
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1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@organizedbride11: No, not cool at all. And I get it. Even though hubby is hurt, he’s appalled at her mistreatment of me and resorting to name calling and like you said, considers me his family too.

I don’t know if I knew that part…that she is an alcoholic. That does NOT excuse her behavior. But it does shed light that she’s probably pea green with jealousy that you have it together, you have her son’s unconditional love and therefore, you are the bad guy 🙁

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

she’s acting like that just because you don’t want children at the wedding?! Wow, I don’t understand why mil’s have to be so horrible! You guys definitely do not deserve that kind of treatment.

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