(Closed) FMIL got professional pictures in the dress before the wedding?

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 107
1412 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

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@KateByDesign:  I wouldn’t even be upset if she wore it to another wedding before she was in mine.  This really isn’t something to be upset about. 

I’ve gotta draw the line at that. My mom is trying to wear a dress to my wedding that she wore to my brother’s wedding 10 years ago. I was like, “I can’t go…I can’t go…no, I can’t go for that. No can do. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no…no can do.”

First, I hated it when she wore it then. Second, these are her kids’ wedding photos. Surely they will be posted and displayed very near each other. 

Otherwise, I think the Future Mother-In-Law has done no harm, no foul. 

Post # 108
479 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Well to me it sounds like maybe your not mad about her taking the pictures.. It sounds like you may feel a little lefted out … I mean you said you was out shopping all day and y’all did lunch and all of this good stuff but you knew nothing about the photos until after…hmm… So I guess the real question is would it had been better if she asked you to come with you to take the pictures? Because after all its her dress

Post # 109
7547 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Ya, this is a non-issue. She owns the dress, you can’t tell her when or where she wears it. 

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