Post # 1
Stupid me unknowingly set our wedding date on FMIL’s husband’s 50th birthday. This is not FI’s dad, this is his stepfather.
Anynow. Future Mother-In-Law is planning a birthday party for her husband. It will take place immediately after the rehersal dinner. Obviously, only FMIL’s friends and family are invited to this birthday bash.
Is it just me or is this totally crazy?
Post # 3
I think it mostly odd for two reasons
1) why wouldnt she invite your parents? That just seems polite
2) and I wouldnt want to have it the day before a wedding.
but, I am not sure I really a problem, technically, with it except for not extending an invite to everyone at the rehearsla. I am just not sure why she would want to do it.
Post # 4
It kinda sucks because Fiance and I wanted to hang out with all of our Out of Town guests after the rehersal dinner. But half of the Out of Town guests will be at this birthday bash and the other half won’t.
Fiance told her that we’re skipping the birthday party so we can hang out with the people who are there to see us.