Post # 1
So, the holiday season has been a joy thanks to my not having to see her, but she got a hold of Fiance a couple mornings ago, basically to throw a tantrum.
We did Thanksgiving at my house this year. Just me and Fiance, my parents, and my brother. As far as we had been told, BY HER, she was going to her brother’s house. Two days ago, she gets a hold of Fiance and starts complaining that he never asked what she was doing. Which he did. He says he thought she was going to her brother’s, turns out, she went to her boyfriend’s brother’s house. Ok…it’s not like she spent Thanksgiving alone…
Then, she starts asking if we are going to go up to her brother’s for Christmas. Fiance says no, that he can’t see making me drive for two hours when I will be 7 months pregnant, especially when we have to divide time between my family and his, and she won’t give us a ride. He tells her that he had already planned on making Christmas dinner here. So, his mother tells him that she is just going to talk to his ex and make sure she gets his daughter on Christmas so that he can’t spend the day with her.
Seriously?! This woman needs help.
Post # 3
Wow! Ok seriously? I hope she is just blowing smoke or I can see her losing her son forever. That was a low blow even if it is all just talk. She has some serious maturing to do.
Post # 4
wHAT THE F?! Your Future Mother-In-Law is an asshole. Can you cut her our of your lifes all together?
Post # 5
Wow, I hope the ex isn’t as insane as his mom…
Post # 6
his mother tells him that she is just going to talk to his ex and make sure she gets his daughter on Christmas so that he can’t spend the day with her
thats just being bitchy – is there a formal custody agreement in place??
Post # 7
There isn’t a formal custody agreement, but they do have an agreement. His ex knows what his mom is like, and I can’t see her giving in to it. But the fact that his mother used that at all is what floors us.
I would love to cut her out of our lives, but Fiance isn’t as willing to, because that’s his mom, and his father left when he was 3. I’ve pretty much made it clear that she is not welcome at my baby shower and she is not welcome in my house, but she still finds ways to make her presence known.