(Closed) FMIL just really wants to rub it in…. her songs for the mother son dance.

posted 10 years ago in Music
Post # 182
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601 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: City, State

Sunshine bride stole the words right out of my mouth… you know the right answer, and the right one isn’t always the easiest one. But in a year, two years, or ten years, you’ll be so happy you listened to your instinct.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

Post # 183
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1080 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

go with your gut. If it doesn’t feel right and the other party involved does not want ot put in the time to fix things then it isn’t right. Your family and friends want what is best for you. They will understand and give you support.

I’m sure you are nervous and scared. HUGS HUGS HUGS

Post # 185
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4765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

Yay!!!! I am SO happy that you went to counseling! It sounds like it went really well!! It also sounds like y’all have made a HUGE step in the right direction! Be sure to keep updating us!

Post # 186
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5262 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

I am so glad to read your post! Keep us updated, it sounds like you two are taking the right steps for a strong, solid marriage. 🙂

Post # 187
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908 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’ve been silently following this all along, I could never really think of anything useful to tell you that hadn’t already been said.

I’m SO glad that you are going to counseling and that you’ve already had a bit of a breakthrough.  I hope that you guys stick with it long enough to work on these issues, I really believe you can have a happy marriage if you can work through this.  I’m SO proud of you for standing up for yourself!!  Now if we can only get him to stand up to his Mom!

Post # 188
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1700 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

So glad you went to counseling – and that he agreed to go too! Things are looking up already! Please keep us posted on how things are going.

Post # 189
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75 posts
Worker bee

Glad you were able to find someone you could meet with so soon. A word of advice, do not get cocky or rub it in that you were right and he was wrong about the mom relationship.

My Fiance and I saw a counselor back in July and I too had some silent YIPPEE moments during the sessions. It was the best thing that we have done together as he had some unrealistic ideas of how relationships worked (evidently, people that are going to have successful marriages NEVER fight, or so he thought). Boy was I glad when our counselor looked at him and said, “My husband and I have been married more than 25 years and we sit down ever New Year’s and go over what went right and what went wrong that year and decide how to fix it.

You can do this!

Jeni

Post # 190
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3226 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m glad you guys went to counseling and working on your relationship. Congrats…that’s great!

Post # 192
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372 posts
Helper bee

Curious – how did things turn out? 

Post # 194
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4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@yrret: What ended up happening with the dance?  Did they do one?  If so, what song did they use?

Post # 196
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372 posts
Helper bee

Congrats!  Am so happy that things worked out for you.  And your pictures are beautiful!

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