(Closed) FMIL pays, she picks?!

posted 10 years ago in Family
Post # 17
210 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

if she used to be a wedding coordinator I am sure she has had LOTS of experience with this vendor and I sure they are amazing. I would take the free cake.. they are CRAZY expensive – and knowing she is controlling… let her having this one and just tell her since she chooses the vendor you get to pick the design and flavors!

Post # 19
98 posts
Worker bee

@Rocport: I totally undestand. Sometimes its just not worth it is it. Let her down gently

Post # 20
2360 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Rocport: She’ll hold a cake over your head for the rest of your life?! Really? A dessert made of flour and sugar and eggs is worth a bad relationship with you? That is so unbelieveable. What a weirdo!

Post # 21
1776 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@redheadem: My Aunt in Law and Mother in Law have a very strained relationship that stems from my Mother-In-Law refusing to wear a dress my AIL bought her to a wedding….some people are just strange…

Post # 23
134 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Glad it worked out. I totally hear you on that whole holding it over the head deal. I think my Future Mother-In-Law would try that if she actually thought it would work with me. Ahahahaha

Post # 24
19 posts
  • Wedding: June 2012

yeah. Future Mother-In-Law can be rough, mine certainly has given me alot of headaches.  But I’m so happy to hear that your situation worked out!  it gives me encouragement to see that somethings with families might just work themselves out!



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