(Closed) FMIL strikes again

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Silly arguement and she ridiclous, clearly if you are engaged you are ready to be married. Don’t egaged with her, just take the in one ear out the other approach, so if she makes stupid comments she doesn’t get a reaction and she knows that you could give two shits about what she says.


Post # 4
223 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I can understand you wanting to vent! I don’t understand why people need to be like that. 


No advice from me as you mentioned you just need to vent but that’s very hurtful and I’m sorry she said that. Not fun at all. 

Post # 5
46677 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Although her comment may have been hurtful, you might want to reflect a minute on how your behavior comes across to other people. Maybe you could keep that bantering for when there is no audience.

Post # 7
7357 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

@julies1949:  +1

people don’t know the inner subtleties of your relationship, and I’d expect anyone to speak up if they thought a loved one might be making a bad relationship choice. If you’re okay with the “bantering”, maybe others are not. Best to save that for when you’re alone together. I know what it’s like to suffer through dinner with a couple who bickers and “banters” and if they’d mentioned marriage, I’d have expressed some concerns too.

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