- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
why does my fmil baby my fi? last week she grabbed him and kept calling him “her baby” (hes 30) and asking me…me!!!… what shee was going to do without him? she babies him way too much infront of me. i asked him too speak to her and he refuses. bc it may hurt her feelings. she talks him out of plans we make when her 60 year old friends ccome over and forces us to sit and chat with them bc its rude if we dont. (fi has been back home since he was 28) so she takes contrrol of him a lot.
she seems to give off such resentment as if her life is now over bc i am marrying her son and moving a total of a 5 minute drive away. she also speaks down to me about work (i was recently laid off) and she has a bad habit of aasking how muuch my parents are ccontributing to the wedding (10 thousand) but nothing pleaeses her. im too shy to offend her but i wanna speak up. i wanna scream. i cant believe her my mother is such a saint and im going to move soo far away from my family to live near this?? help