- 5 years ago
- Wedding: April 2014
Ok so if anyone one read my last post about Future Mother-In-Law then you know that my Fiance is divorced, this is something that never bothered me because hay I’m an adult and I can handle the fact that sometimes marriages don’t work out. However his mum never really got over it and would take her over me in a second ,no joke if Fiance suddenly went to her one day and said I want to get back with my ex wife (let’s call her Jane for the purpose of this) she would probably throw them a party,I can deal with that and in all honesty I don’t really like her. Howver she keeps comparing my wedding to His last wedding this is a conversation I had with her yesterday, I only rung to tell her that I had sent the invites out,
Me: Ive been Looking into accommodation for everyone
Future Mother-In-Law: Well at His last wedding Jane picked out this beautiful five star hotel and then her parents even offered to pay for everyone, honestly how sweet was that.
Me: yea well we are probably going with something more low key
Future Mother-In-Law: Oh that’s a shame
Me: well it is still going to be perfect, but we just want our wedding to be a bit more personal
Future Mother-In-Law: How can you make it more personal than that (Oh yea cause handing out cash is dead personal)
Me: We were actually thinking that one if my friends could officiate
Future Mother-In-Law: Why would you want to do that?
Me: Because, she has been my friend since I was about 4
Future Mother-In-Law: Yea, but what I was thinking was that if you are going to Go with this hole Destination Wedding then maybe we could talk to the priest about coming out to conduct the cermemony, he performed at Janes wedding the reading She had him say were just perfect.
Ok so I could probably go on for a while like this, but seriously I wouldn’t be surprised if she has some sort of shrine about her somewhere. It is getting ridiculous she always used to compare us but it was never like this it would just be the odd snide comment her and there and I can deal with that but it is just getting worse! She is THE most inconsiderate woman I have ever meant. I don’t think she has said one nice thing about the wedding. What do I do because I am about a mm away from just saying “right fine then if our wedding is going to be so crap don’t bloody come”