(Closed) FMIL Vacation Drama: Quick Rant

posted 6 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
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1318 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think you have every right to be hurt and upset!!! I hate when my Fiance goes away on “family only trips”… I told him that after we get married, I will be family and that there will be no more trips that don’t include me. Sorry if that makes me a bitch, but that’s how it is… I’m sorry you’re feeling left out…

Post # 5
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1318 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@cat-distraction:  it’s nice to know sometimes people share your crazy bitch moments ^_^ Some people think I’m too crazy about things like that, but this is one spoiled rotten boy, so I don’t think it’s a lot to ask to be included.

Post # 7
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10366 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

While you have every right to be hurt, i’m a little concerned that you’re totally lost when your SO isn’t there. It’s a chance for you to fulfill your interests outside of him, see friends more often, etc. I think it’s really important that both people in a relationship be complete people in their own right, otherwise it can cause unhealthy codependence.

Post # 8
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10366 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

@cat-distraction:  You can’t be mad at him for getting off the phone with you when you TOLD him to get off the phone with you. Passive aggressive subtext will get you nowhere in a marriage.

Post # 9
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3142 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

You need to have other things going on, plain and simple. He’s on vacation- let him enjoy his time there. I find it annoying when my sister is on the phone when we are spending family time together & she feels the same about me. You really would want him to miss a family vacation to stay home with you?

It’s summer- why not go spend time with your friends? Go to the beach for a day. Go to an amusement park. Find something to do! Have some experiences while he’s gone. It’s all about how you frame things & you have a pretty negative frame…

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