- 9 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
My Future Mother-In-Law hates me and I have already banned her from my baby shower. I’m almost at the point of saying that if she comes to the wedding, I won’t. Long story short (as I can get it), she claims to be Christian, but behaves anything but. Even though she has two children by different fathers, both out of wedlock, and she is now living with a man that is still married, she called me a slut for living with her son since we started dating.
She has blatantly asked him in front of me when he is going to marry his ex.
She has routinely tried to sabotage our wedding, including crying poor and making Fiance give her money that she knew was intended for my wedding dress to cover her storage locker bills, and backing out of giving us a ride to sign a rental agreement when my car was in the shop, half an hour before we had to be there.
When she found out we weren’t getting married in a church, she went around to different churches, putting in applications for us.
I needed Fiance to help me with some stuff for the baby, and she wanted him to help her clean one of her storage lockers, and she got angry and said that I could do what I had to do by myself, even though she knew I wasn’t able to lift anything or strain myself, at all. Yet, she has to have someone come help her move all of five boxes from one side of the locker to the other.
She has moved storage lockers about 6 times now, and every time, she has to have Fiance help her and if he has anything else planned, she throws a fit. If I can’t drive him, she throws a fit. She never offers gas money to me, either.
She has tried to convince him to go to Christian singles meetings at her church to meet a “nice girl”.
She constantly complains about my clothes since I got pregnant. I don’t have any money to spare right now, I can barely cover gas to and from work, and she throws a fit because you can see my cleavage when I wear a shirt, or my skirt has a hole in it. Yet, she has never offered to buy me any maternity clothes.
When Fiance and I were both laid off within weeks of each other, her only response was “Well, you’ll still pay my storage locker, right?”
Even though we helped her out more than we could afford to when she lost both of her jobs and her apartment, now that she has a better job than before, she never offers to helps us out, even when she sees that we are barely getting by, yet she judges my parents for letting us move in and live together unmarried.
This is just some of the very basic things she has done…there is so much more…I jsut needed to let off a little steam.