(Closed) FMIL vent

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 4
52 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Definitely just say no. That is ridiculous and I wouldn’t invite people just because she says so. 

Post # 6
242 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

oh i know this all too well.  in our case she has offered to “pitch in” and has now turned crazy. insisting she doesn’t get to invite as many people as my side of the family. my fiance and i have both stopped talking to her. seems easier than fighting with her.  i have absolutely no idea how to approach a situation like this – since she isn’t my mother. if it was my mom, i’d sit her down and tell her no. at this point, we’ve decided to pay for the entire wedding ourselves but she insists on still having a say. i want a wedding of only 80 people.  she made a guest list of 100 just for herself.  she called my fiance one night to cry on the phone and say shes upset that I’m leaving her out of all the wedding planning. um, we haven’t even picked a date or a venue.  literally no decisions have been made yet. 


how can a grown woman be so immature?


good luck. i have no advice for you. just know, you are not alone. hahah

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