(Closed) FMIL wants to come on bachelorette trip

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

Is your mom going? If not, I think it would be weird if she was the only mom there. If she’s just hinting and not coming out and asking to go, I would probably just pretend not to notice, and maybe tell her some things about it that would make her not want to go.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

“FMIL, I’m so happy you’re excited about the wedding, but I really don’t think you’d want to go to the bachelorette party – BMs are planning it and I think we’ll just be bar-hopping for the most part, which I know isn’t really something you like, my mom wouldn’t want to come either. But I’m sooo looking forward to *insert something she is invited to here*.”

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Maybe plan a more subdued bachelorette party with both of your mothers.  Go out of town shopping and stay in a nice hotel or something.  I wouldn’t necessarily mind if FI’s mom wanted to come IF she was in the same frame of mind as everyone (with regard to drinking, novelty items, etc.)  If you don’t think she would fit the mold, which is what it sounds like, then I would recommend some other sort of weekend with her and wiggle your way out of having her at this bachelorette party.  What does your Fiance say?

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@milesbella: totally agree!!

 

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