Post # 46
onthefritz: Yes! Bringing back those terrible gaucho pants! I wore em with pride back in the day! But in all seriousness, I am hoping that she is talking more about a wide leg flowy pant suit. Is she? You know her better than we do. Would she really actually wear the true gaucho pant, cropped style and all? PPs, you can show all the fashionistas you want, but I can’t imagine how that would look on an older woman. No no no!!!! I love the idea of having your Future Sister-In-Law help her shop. Good thinking.
Post # 47
Ohhhhh noooooo!! LOL. I don’t have any advice, but I’m absolutely certain that there aren’t really stores that sell gauchos anymore. Right?! RIGHT?!
Post # 48
PeachyMama: The ones she currently has are not the “fashionista” pant. They’re the 10 years ago black gaucho pant.
Honestly, I find most things on “fashion week” awful, as does Future Mother-In-Law. She’s not wearing them because they’re “fashionable”, she’s wearing them because they’re comfortable.
AGAIN, I want her comfortable. Yes it’s her decision. I’m not “making” anyone match the wedding party. Mom and Future Mother-In-Law ASKED me what Id prefer, so I told them. I want her happy with what she wears now, 6 months from now and 10 years from now.
Post # 49
I’m surprised how many people care about this. If my Future Mother-In-Law shows up and is happy, I won’t care what she is wearing as long as it isn’t a long puffy white dress. I don’t understand thinking that it is appropriate to tell her what to wear or worrying that she will be embarassed. Tell her what others are wearing so she doesen’t misunderstand how the others will be clothed, but if she still chooses to wear the pants, who cares?
Post # 50
ugh this is something my Future Mother-In-Law would do… sorry, I have no advice.
Post # 51
I don’t get why it matters at all.
Heck, I did not even know what my Mother-In-Law was going to wear to the wedding until I walked down the aisle 😛 I would never have thought to stipulate any part of her outfit, including color.
I like gaucho pants when done well, and they are very much in fashion currently.
Post # 52
Ellicott: Sorry I dont classify that as ‘wedding ready’ in the slightest
Post # 53
I had to Google ‘Gaucho Pants’ because I didn’t know what they were. I wanted them to be like MC Hammer pants (sorry). They are what I know as cullotes and they are back. They are the next big thing in fashion. I swear! I’m sure with a bit of guidance she will look fabulous. A lot of the UK department stores offer a personal shopper service. It’s free and you aren’t obliged to make any purchases, but the lady or gent in question will pull various outfits together and it’s always interesting to see what you dismiss out of hand on the hanger yet end up loving once you’ve got it on. I use this a lot for work outfits. I suggest you find out if this is an option and make a day of it for her.
Post # 54
Let her wear whatever she wants to wear.
Post # 55
onthefritz: When I first read the title I thought, oh this must be from 4 years ago bc gaucho pants are a thing of the past. Well arent I surprised? I am shocked she wants to wear that. For me personally, when I see people wearing casual dresses to a wedding its insulting and I think out of respect people should dress nicely to a wedding. Sweatpants or anything in that family is pretty disrespectful in my opinion.
Post # 56
My Future Father-In-Law wants to weat his John Deer hat. Sure. Who cares? You’ll look back in pix and laugh.
Post # 57
onthefritz: I dont know if this has been suggested, but if your mom doesnt already have her dress, maybe offer for a girls shopping trip, and make a day of it (brunch or lunch and shopping, etc). She’ll see the kind of dress your mom is looking at, and she may decide otherwise. And even if she still decides to go with those, then at least she’ll be informed. And you guys can use that time to look for a cute top or accessories and shoes to make her comfortable and semi dressed up.
Post # 58
I agree with PP posters- she should wear what she is comfortable in, and if Gaucho pants are her thing- so be it! I had never even given thought to telling other people what to wear to my wedding until my mom asked- my response “Wear whatever you feel comfortable in, as long as you do not show up in my dress and wear it better than I do!” 🙂
I’m sure when the day comes, you probably will not even notice what everyone else is wearing at your wedding!
Best of luck!