- 12 years ago
My mom got her dress for my wedding like 4 months ago. My Future Mother-In-Law has known what color she is wearing for months. Back in May my Future Mother-In-Law mentioned to my mom that she thought she might wear the same color too (chocolate brown). Future Mother-In-Law asked my opinion on what color to wear. I told her a deep teal – she loves turquoise and it’s beautiful on her.
Fast forward to 2 months before our wedding. Future Mother-In-Law hasn’t been looking for dresses as long as my mom, but ordered a few from Nordstroms. What color are they? Chocolate brown. I asked her about other colors she might wear and she said she’s still holding out for a dark teal dress.
My mom IS the type of person that would be upset if Future Mother-In-Law wore the same color. Future Mother-In-Law and entire future fam is not exactly up to speed on wedding etiquette/don’t think things like wearing the same color as the MOB is a big deal. I can’t put my Fiance or any Future Sister-In-Law up to telling her b/c she will know it came from me.
I haven’t told my mom yet. Ugh this is the LAST thing I want to be dealing with.
What should I do?