(Closed) FoG not attending. Rant ahead.

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Oh that sucks! I know  how mad you must be, hell, I am mad FOR you guys.  Just snuggle close to your Fiance tonight and love him a bit extra.  that’s all you can do.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

That is terrible, just ridiculously terrible. At the same time, it seems like a blessing since your Future Father-In-Law doesn’t seem trustworthy enough for a big event like that. Still, I can only imagine the hurt.

Post # 5
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5191 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

@erincredible:  it sounds like you don’t like your Future Father-In-Law very much. Better that he doesn’t attend.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@erincredible:  I am kind of on his father’s side here… and this is why

1. Your wedding is in June, so1.5 months away. Realizstically, with surgeries, they do not perform them daily. It really may be the case this is the only time in the next 6 months or so he can have it done.

2. Depending on the injury… if it a rotator cuff injury, those are INCREDIBLY PAINFUL. I myself would have the surgery over attend a family member wedding just because of the pain.

3. He may still be able to come depending on how he heals. Perhaps just leave it as “well we hope you feel good enough to attend, we will leave a seat open for you”.

Yes there is a history and emotions aside… just looking at the surgery issue. He may be telling the truth

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

You had the date picked for a year and a half!!!

Move on with your wedding planning and try not to give this another thought….. 🙂

This is a reflection of him and not of you and your fiance……

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Hey, I think he should still be able to go to the wedding. I mean if you guys are at least in the same city. Even for just the ceremony. With good pain relief, and as long as he takes care and somebody to watch him. Maybe suggest it to him? And also tell the surgeon?

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee

I think I would have to know what the surgery is for and whether or not it is something that needs to be done ASAP before I judge your Future Father-In-Law. I would think there would have to be some underlying issues for him to choose surgery over his son’s wedding. 

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