(Closed) Follow-Up on Shower RSVP’s

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I follow-up on the 4 Shower RSVP's
    No, you should send the hostess their emails so she can follow-up : (11 votes)
    69 %
    No, you should just wait and see if they RSVP : (1 votes)
    6 %
    Yes, it's not a big deal : (4 votes)
    25 %
  • Post # 3
    713 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I agree with you – it’s a little strange for you to be calling them to check. I’d say give your friend their email addresses and she can deal with it.

    Or – tell her not to worry about it! I could see it being an issue if half of the guests hadn’t responded, but 4 people?

    Post # 4
    86 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2011 - Greenville Country Club

    If you’re not throwing the party, it would seem awkward to call the guests. Politely ask if the host can touch base with the four guests. I agree – they may feel obligated if put on the spot by the bride.

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