Post # 1
I have a quick question…
A close family friend is throwing me a shower on March 5th. It’s still over 2 weeks away, but she emailed me today and asked me to follow-up on 4 people who haven’t RSVP’d. Is that normal protocol? I feel weird asking these people, even though they’re close friends, if they’re coming to my shower. Especially because 3 of them are out of town and I don’t want them to feel obligated to come.
What should I do??
Post # 3
I agree with you – it’s a little strange for you to be calling them to check. I’d say give your friend their email addresses and she can deal with it.
Or – tell her not to worry about it! I could see it being an issue if half of the guests hadn’t responded, but 4 people?
Post # 4
- Wedding: June 2011 - Greenville Country Club
If you’re not throwing the party, it would seem awkward to call the guests. Politely ask if the host can touch base with the four guests. I agree – they may feel obligated if put on the spot by the bride.