(Closed) Follow Up Thread: If you are okay with SO getting a lap dance…

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: does this apply only to the bachelor party or any time your SO finds himself at a strip club? Why?
    I am okay with him getting a lap dance only at his bachelor party : (20 votes)
    25 %
    I am okay with him getting a lap dance any time he finds himself at a strip club : (29 votes)
    37 %
    I just want to see the results : (30 votes)
    38 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Definitely okay with at his bachelor party. After that it would depend. 

    Post # 4
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I answered “any time he finds himself in a strip club” because: 1) I don’t think the bachelor party is so special that I would change my thoughts/feelings for it, and 2) Fiance has been in a strip club maybe five times in his entire life including friends’ bachelor parties. He’s not really the strip club type, and when he has been in one, he has never put a single dollar into any bras or thongs/g-strings let alone gotten a lap dance. Again, not his thing. I’d be okay with it, but he chooses not to partake.

    Post # 5
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I’m fine with lap dances under any circumstance, it makes no difference to me. 

    Post # 6
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2006

    As someone who’s had and witnessed many a lap dance, I’m fine with it whenever I guess. My husband isn’t a strip club kind of guy and I’m glad about that but I wouldn’t pick a fight over it…but I also wouldn’t LOVE it.

     

    Post # 8
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 1998

    I wouldn’t care, I’d be more pissed off about the money wasted when I could give him a pretty hot lap dance myself:)

    Post # 11
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    @confusedbee333:  yeah, both things. It doesn’t bother me if it was once in awhile. Maybe only at special events? But anymore then that and I would freak.

    Post # 12
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

     

    @harperlynn:  haha!! what special events include lap dances?!! I’m with you though. I don’t care if it happens once and awhile. I already know it wont, my Boyfriend or Best Friend isn’t the type of guy that likes to go hang out a strip clubs.

     

    Post # 13
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I dont understand the difference either. Yes, I guess technically the guy is single at the bachelor party – but he is engaged to be married, so in my mind he is NOT single by any means.

    I am not okay with lap dances at all. My Fiance isn’t a strip club kinda guy so it doesn’t even make a difference what I think about it since he wouldn’t be inclined to do that anyway.

    Post # 14
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @HisMoon:  this.

    Post # 15
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Probably wouldn’t mind either way, but if he was going a lot I might start to get annoyed since that is time, money and energy that could be going into the relationship.

     

    Knowing him I think it would be hilarious to watch, though (sexual displays like that tend to freak him out and make him squirm – it is seriously cute).

     

    Post # 16
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @confusedbee333:  I’m ok with any time he finds himself and a strip club but I would have a problem with a partner who wanted to go with any regularity. I’d prefer it to be a novelty to celebrate something. The type of guy who is strongly attracted to the stripper look or the strip club scene is not the type of guy I’m ever into so it’s not even a concern.

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