Post # 1
I had wrote my previous post in the hope of getting some encouragement and the way you all have supported me is simply overwhelming. It gave me the initial push to break things off with the guy. Now I have involved my parents and confided in them and they have decided to stand by my decision to quit. I have broken off contact with the guy and let him know that I can never become his wife under any circumstance. I might be getting overly optimistic but already my life is much better
Just wanted to thank each and every one of you from the core of my heart.
Post # 3
My suggestion? Step One: Figure out what he didn’t like you doing and DO IT EVERY DAY. For me, in a similar situation, it was driving a car (weird? yes). I drove every effing day like my life depended on it for awhile and it was fabulous.
Post # 4
For me, he wanted me to become a vegetarian. It used to piss him off to see me eating fish or chicken. How’s that for weird? I think I’ll have fish for breakfast everyday for a while now.
Post # 6
I’d just like to point out how great it is to actually see someone on the Bee get advice about a guy, recognize the issues, and then actually do what’s best for them.
Too many girls on here are willing to put up with shitty situations. Huge cheers for you for recognizing you deserve better.
Post # 7
@Kewii: +1!!! I hate seeing people post the awful situations they’re in, they get good advice, but they stay with the guy.
ETA – go eat a huge STEAK!
Post # 8
Thanks a lot! There are times I accidentally remember a (rare) good moment but I have made that ‘bad things’ list and keeping it handy. Every time I look at that list I’m feeling disgusted all over again. You guys give some seriously great advice.