- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2012
I posted a while ago about my Future Sister-In-Law who has just been a terror since we got engaged. You all gave wonderful advice but there is a new development.
I got asked over the weekend by FI’s aunt if we needed any financial help for the wedding. I figured it was innocent because their whole family is very helpful and giving. I politely declined and thanked her. I then find out she asked because Future Sister-In-Law has been telling the ENTIRE family on many occasions that she had to opt out of going on a family vacation because “we need her to shell out some cash to help us with our wedding”. She’s been telling everyone, and two family members ended up telling me. They said she has been complaining about it non stop and seemed super annoyed. They didn’t come out and say this till I made sure they realized how UNTRUE it was. First of all, we wouldn’t have a wedding we couldn’t afford to have, and second of all, we would never ask HER to help us fund it. I was so angry I was shaking. Talked to Fiance about it and he’s at a loss for what to do. He’s just as frustrated with her as I am but he doesn’t know what’ll solve it. I feel like talking to her about it will do no good because she is super manipulative and I think whatever “excuse” she gives, Fiance will fall for it!
I also found out she is telling family members I completely shut her out of dress shopping. Another lie! I asked her to come and she opted not to. I feel like she just wants to play the victim because she wants her family to get angry with me. Truth is, they do like me and I hate to say it but, I get along with them better than she does. Luckily, they say they believe me but I am so tired of her twisting everything!