(Closed) For a chemo patient: Healthy food or comfort food?

posted 4 years ago in Cooking
  • poll: Which one during chemotherapy?
    Comfort Casserole : (39 votes)
    76 %
    Healthy Option : (8 votes)
    16 %
    Neither (explain) : (4 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
    1963 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I would go with the comfort food. When my mom went through Chemo she started loosing weight very rapidly, and it would have been good for her to have a few extra pounds on her bones! I would also check with them if there are any food aversions. Before my mom got too sick to eat properly there were already a lot of foods she was averse to.

    Post # 4
    5983 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    @bananejaune:  I would give them something you know they’ll eat….healthy or comforting, chemo changes a lot of elements for patients, and for some of them, certain things taste horribly and others divine….by the time my grandma was done, all she’d eat were Big Macs and dirty martinis…my grandfather loves lots of horshradish and salt, my mother was all about carbs….its a personal thing….doing something nice is as good as it gets, so don’t fash yourself over what it is, they’ll appreciate it.

    Post # 5
    2499 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @bananejaune:  One of my friends is going through chemotherapy, and I’m pretty sure everyone dropping off food for her is more concerned with giving her heartier foods to help her keep the weight on.

    Can you combine the two? Perhaps using real butter and freshly grated cheddar instead of margarine and processed cheese? And adding some broccoli or peas? 

    Post # 6
    49 posts
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I had a conversation once with a dietician who said that if you could lower your acidity and eat cleaner, it helps get rid of diseases faster because the processed materials and chemicals actually creates acidity and doesn’t help to fight off bad cells in the body…granted I am sure they want comfort food:(


    Post # 7
    2746 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - Disney

    I would go with neither and here is why. Chemo changes your appetite, makes you nauseas and changes how food tastes.

    Even low dose chemo does this. Thats why the day after I drop my weekly dose I dont give myself crap if I eat like crap. Sometimes the only thing that doesnt make me hurl tastic is something super bad for me. I cant blame my body for going oh hell no after I poison it weekly. Even a little poison is poison, so in her case where she’s taking chemo for cancer make something that sounds tasty to her. That could change day to day so just ask.

    Post # 8
    2379 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Send the comfort food.  Things that are easy to reheat and eat are priceless, as much for the caretaker as the patient.  Everyone worries about the patient, and a lot of times the caretaker will get run down and sick because they’re trying to handle everything, and they forget to even cook for themselves.  My mom always sends a lasagna or baked ziti when people have a serious illness, and she cuts and packs it into single serve portions. 

    Post # 11
    7175 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Definitely comfort food – but regardless, I think it’s so nice of you to do something like this! They will appreciate and remember the gesture for a long time, I’m sure!


    Post # 12
    68 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    I’m an Oncology nurse. I’d make something that doesn’t have a strong smell to it. That tends to bother chemo patients. Or you could bake it at your house and take it to them. Something high in protein and calories. Also, plastic silverware helps keep the metallic taste from the chemo away. Maybe something that they could freeze for later.

    Post # 13
    200 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    @Mickey9998: +1

    I think dropping off food is great. But be aware that, most likely, your neighbor is not going to consume what you bring over. I agree to bring something that is low odor and no more than 4-5 servings. Chances are his partner is going to be eating the food solo. When my mom went through chemo the only thing she wanted to eat was Saltine crackers so maybe a hearty low odor soup that can be microwaved easily and a box of saltines to go with it? 

    Either way, this is a wonderful gesture and I’m sure your neighbor’s partner will be thankful to not have to worry about making something for himself. Several people brought meals to our house when my mom was sick, but it was only ever my dad and brothers who would eat the meals. 


    Post # 14
    840 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    @bananejaune:  Comfort food all the way. Especially since it is him and his partner. Even if he can’t stomach it his partner will be stressed, rundown and comfort food is the perfect thing. Plus Mac and cheese is a great freezer food, reheats well, etc. Kudos to you for being so thoughtful. 

    Post # 15
    4664 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Comfort food. They’re gonna have a hard enough time eating anything at all… it’d have to be REALLY appetizing…

    Post # 16
    899 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Every chemo drug (and patient) is different, but chances are that he has lost his appetite and may well be feeling very nauseous. Just make it was tasty!

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