(Closed) For a second there, I was considering breaking up for no reason..

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I have been with my FH for 5 years and I have had my moments, sometimes weeks, where he just bugs the crap out of me for no reason what so ever, it passes.  I think we all have these moments and I am glad your passed.  Sounds like he might be getting his ducks in a row also, fingers crossed ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2006

We had that experience a bit over 1.5 years ago only it went on for months and we were “arguing” a lot.  Once I realized it was about not spending enough couple-time, told him so, and then changed our habits, everything improved!  I think you’re dead on about the not spending enough alone time together.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

I think everyone goes through this every once in a while. I think when you start to lose that feeling of intimacy, its easy to romanticize being single since you already feel so disconnected. Its great that you talked to him about it and I’m glad it made you feel better.

Since I’m in a LDR I start feeling like that every couple of months and then I absolutley know its time to make a trip to see him. So maybe if you start to feel that way again, you know its time for a date night or something. ๐Ÿ™‚

 

Post # 7
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Busy bee

I’ve felt like that too. I think it’s like a cycle thing.

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