(Closed) For Bee’s with children with exes

posted 8 years ago in Legal
Post # 3
52 posts
Worker bee

Could the sheriff’s department serve your ex at his place of employment? Assuming he is, of course, employed, LOL. Embarassed

Post # 5
4024 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

They served my ex through his lawyer, since he went got one. But I would do a private investigator because I wouldn’t want to involve my child in anyway. Good luck with it though! Hope it all gets worked out.

Post # 6
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Oh wow.  Don’t involve the kids.  I’m so surprised your lawyer suggested that.  Seems like something NOT in the best interest of the children, if they are there and witness this and no telling how he’d react.   I say do the passport route.  Do not involved your kids in all of that madness.  It’s enough they haven’t seen their father in months.  Although they are not showing it now, it is effecting them.   Shame on your ex.  Shame on him. 

Post # 7
2208 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think your interests are good not to involve the kids. They may never remember it, but the few interactions the have with their bio dad should be positive, if possible (to the extent you can control that).

The PI should be able to do something creative, but if you need the signatures anyways, that sounds like a good approach.

Post # 8
654 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Whatever you do I don’t think its a good idea to involve your children. I was about 10 when my mom called the police on my dad for bringing us home late from a visitation night and I still remember it in a negative way. Of course as a adult I understand it but its definitely something I wish I didn’t have to go through. Good Luck in whatever you choose just be careful as to how its going to affect your children.

Post # 9
3762 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I like the idea of a fake accident. That way you still kind of use the kids as a ploy but they aren’t actually involved. 

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