- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2014
Hi! We’re having a small destination wedding in Bali next June, but to appease my parents we agreed to a separate Chinese banquet here in the states. Originally I wanted to have it before our wedding, but my parents feel that it’s rude because we “wont be married yet.”
We’re getting legally married before leaving for the destination wedding, so we’ll be “really married” either way. Our main hesitation is that we don’t want to have to be worried about another event even after our wedding, when we will most likely want to relax.
What do you think.. is it rude to have the banquet before the “real” wedding?