(Closed) For couples that are paying for their own wedding…

posted 8 years ago in Money
  • poll: Who's contributing more to the wedding
    You : (39 votes)
    61 %
    Fiance : (25 votes)
    39 %
  • Post # 3
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    713 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    It’s not really official, he makes more and has been at his job long enough to have a better padded savings account.. so he will likely be writing the final venue/catering check.. but i have been paying for all my DIY stuff along the way, and the dress, and some of the down payments… so it will mostly equal out.. and by then whats his is mine, whats mine is his.. so we’re not really worrying about keeping it 100% equal its more like, “oh, hon, i got this one…” I just have an easier time doing the multiple little payments than the one huge check at once.

    Post # 4
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    554 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    We are paying for our wedding expenses completely, save for the rehearsal dinner and my dress. I am contributing more than he is for the wedding, because right now I make substantially more money than he does.  He is working part time with a non-profit and getting his MPA… and I’m a teacher. Once he starts his career, he will most definitely make more than I do. 

    Post # 5
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    1051 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    We have a joint acct, so everything gets paid from that, but since Fiance makes (almost exactly) twice what I do I guess you could say he’s paying more (though it could also be read that I’m payng proportionally more…)  Since our finances are completely meshed, we don’t really differentiate.

    Post # 6
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    536 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Hopefully we will get some help (fingers crossed) but as of right now we are paying for most of the wedding..Fiance has been at his job longer and makes me money than me, so he will prob end up paying for more.  But in the end isn’t both our money anyway ?!  🙂

    Post # 7
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Darling Husband put more money towards the wedding than me for the sheer fact that he was deployed at the time, not paying any taxes, did not have any living expenses, and was able to bank 100% of his income and he made about 50% more than me. Meanwhile I had the mortgage and living expenses of the house (and JUST started my first real job out of college) so it only made sense for “him” to shell out more money. It was completely a joint decision for the wedding though. He felt strongly about having a larger wedding with all his family there, so it was a lot of his decision to pay for that. But I tried to offset that by DIYing a lot of smaller things and being as money-conscious as I could possibly be.

    Post # 8
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    114 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Our finances are 100% combined but I make quite a bit more than he does so technically me, I guess.

    Post # 9
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I am paying more for the wedding, but he is paying for our honeymoon so it balances out.  It’s never really been an issue and we just try to do what we can without stressing out too much.

    Post # 10
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    573 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    We are paying for the wedding ourselves and took a serious look at our monthly income/expenses and then agreed on an amount each of us could contribute each month….Fiance makes about 3x what I do, so he obviously contributes more. 

    Post # 11
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    873 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    50/50 but my mum is paying for most of the Canadian wedding.

    Post # 12
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    3344 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    neither. we’re splitting everything equally.

    Post # 13
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    383 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Our finances are combined 100%, as we have been living together for 5 and a half years. Over the years the big bucks earner has see sawed between us, although currently he earns more than me- but as an average over the entire time we have lived together it will probably work out 50/50.

    Post # 14
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @thatelisagirl – my name is Elisa too! 🙂 

    We are both contributing 50% each.  He makes more money, but I’ve gotten some side jobs to make up for my half.

    Post # 15
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    I actually spent more, but thats because I used most of my savings for the wedding, I had been saving for years knowing that I wanted to use that $ for the wedding.

    My hubs did pay for the honeymoon & the rings (even though I know I was supposed to buy his, eh well!)

    Post # 16
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    1566 posts
    Bumble bee

    Our money is joint, so we’re contributing equally. i do make a bit more than him, but nothing significant. 

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