(Closed) For fun: I wouldn't have married someone who…

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 76
113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

unequally yolked

Post # 77
613 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - Historic cinema

1. Someone who doesn’t enjoy the performing arts…particularly my performing arts which includes burlesque. If he couldn’t handle me being practically nude on stage shaking it for a crowd then I wouldn’t have married him.

2. Someone who wanted kids. Sorry, but my vagina is for recreational use only!

3. Someone who would be ashamed of me dressing as a 1950s pinup every day. I am always overdressed.

Post # 78
1042 posts
Bumble bee

1) a steelers fan

2) chews with their mouth open 

Post # 79
559 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I wouldn’t have married someone who…

1) isn’t kind or respectful towards other people

2) doesn’t make me laugh

Post # 80
151 posts
Blushing bee

I have three deal-breakers:

1. Someone who doesn’t share my Christian faith

2. Someone who is abusive towards women or thinks of women as being beneath men

3. Someone who doesn’t like cats

All three of these are 100% unacceptable!

Post # 81
812 posts
Busy bee

Oh I have so many.

1. Does drugs/smokes

2. Doesn’t listen to me, support me, or treat me right.

3. Racist/Homophobic, etc…not open minded


That’s as far as I could narrow it down lol thankful my SO is none of those!!

Post # 82
6526 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Willow90:  this is mY list

1-someone who smokes//does drugs

2-has cheated

3-someone who thinks women should be the only ones to cook, clean, etc

4-someone who doesn’t have their shit together. (Meaning-has a job but its not a career or someone who jumps job to job). I need stability

5-No sense of humor, not an animal lover (if you love me, you have to love my dog too!) 

Post # 83
8327 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Apart from the obvious (cheating, sexist  etc ) mine would  be

1 Is stupid/unintelligent

2 Is mean-spirited

If I had a third it  would be no sense of humour.

PS I’m  amazed at  the number of people  for whom smoking   cigarettes is a deal breaker   I mean  yes, it’s an  awful habit , and an addiction I’d help anyone break if I could , but it’s not – to me- to be compared to things like lying and cheating or a taste for underage sex  or cruelty to animals .

Post # 84
510 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Is religious in anyway.

If they are dumb or have no memory. 

I’m surprised at how many are smoking, I don’t mindsmoking, I wouldn’t have a drinker though. Political stuff wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me either. race could cause issues with parents Too 

Post # 85
50 posts
Worker bee


Since it’s no fun to go with abuse, etc., I’ll choose some entertaining ones

– Dresses like a stereotypical frat boy or former frat boy

– Doesn’t clip his nails short enough

Post # 86
1648 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014


1. Smokes or does drugs.

2. Treats his mother poorly.

3. Doesn’t like my family.

4. Thought that a woman’s work was in the kitchen.


Post # 87
4510 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Aside from standard dealbreakers (abuse, infidelity, etc.):

  • Didn’t have an open mind
  • Disrespects/discriminates against any group (regardless of if its based on gender, race, religion, sexuality, etc.) – even casually. (For example, I’ve made it clear to Darling Husband than any “jokes” that include mocking an accent or something similar are over the line in our house.) 

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