Post # 1
I’ve noticed lately that as planning comes down to more of the tiny decisions, it’s totally been my Maid/Matron of Honor and I making all the decisions. Mr. Otter most of the time doesn’t care (example: here comes the bride sign – he said he would “obviously be looking at [me],” so it doesn’t matter what the sign looks like). But it’s been really fun! I’ll chat her/text her and ask her which one she likes more, and that normally (finally) leads to a decision.
Who’s helped with your decision making?
Post # 3
It’s been pretty much me… fi has imput and I ask my sister and mom and one of my bm’s for advice too.
Post # 4
Between myself, my aunt, my best friend (MOH), and my wedding planner we had every thought and aspect covered. It was definitely a concentrated group effort to pull off our wedding.
Post # 5
It was about 65% me, 35% Darling Husband. We took into account what others wanted/preferred, such as having a local venue because his parents are older and can’t travel long distances, but ultimately, it was only the two of us making decisions. To be fair, we didn’t have a Bridal Party. I did tell some of my vendors to go ahead and go with what they think is best, but IMO, that’s still my decision (since I told them to do that).
Post # 6
I come up with the ideas and then depending on if Fiance can know about them I consult him, get his opinion and if he gives go ahead I check with either Mother-In-Law, my Mum, my Maid/Matron of Honor, whoever is around. Seems that I get almost everyones opinion on everything but Fiance and have made the majority of decisions it seems. Most of the time he isn’t interested until I tell him this crazy idea I’ve had or until a final decision has to be made and then he pipes up and makes sure we both are getting what we want and that the day doesn’t end up as crazy as it might if I was just let loose 😀 guess I’m quite lucky…
Post # 7
My mom and I have made all the decisions. Fiance isn’t very interested other than having his bachelor’s party in Atlantic City. He is 800 miles away from the venue though, so there’s not much he’s able to help with.
Post # 8
My Fiance and I are planning our wedding. This is his second and he wants it to be a grand event. We hired a wedding planner because we have so much to do because we are also moving to a different state. He has picked the colors and I put my spin on what will make it beautiful and it has been a pleasant experience. When I get overwhelm he says I will do it and vice versa. I didnt want a wedding I wanted to elope so now I have gotten into it and enjoy it on the good days and regret it on the bad.