(Closed) For Mommies who have m/c

posted 7 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

hello i had a miscarriage on july 2010, i was 4 months. it has been one of the mosr difficult experiences i had…

my hysband older sister and niece are really MEAN, plus i did got that feeling, becouse he really love his niece, buy her everything she wants.

she is 8 or so  and she just want to be held by him…

 

the point is i had my m/c on july 20th, and he went to her kindergardent on july 23…. i wasnt even able to do stuff around the house.. AND HE DROVE 3 HOURS just for his niece…

 

SO I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND!! HOW YOU FEEL!!

 

Post # 4
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595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Honestly, it has been real hard for me to not feel this way about them, but i cant help it.

we had talked about it LOTS of times, but the wont stop calling him, ( crying on the phone,making a big deal out of everything), we just had a bbaby girl, i had a complicated pregnancy, but she is finally here.

i looked for help, had therapy, so i could feel better, but i cant helped!!!

now with our baby, everything with niece is just the same as it was, and it really makes me jealous, becouse he will give all the atention to niece.

 

i might be wrong, but is hard to not be!!!

had you talked to him about it?   counseling or therapy?

Post # 5
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11391 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I am so sorry. 🙁 I know how you feel . I mc at 9 weeks on January 9th 2011. It was the hardest thing I have been through. It didn’t help that everyone and I mean everyone that I know was pregnant at the time. I dont feel the sad was I felt then now. But I do still think about it all of the time. About how thisChristmas our baby would be 4 months old, ext. it’s hard and it takea a lot of time to heal from and some it takes longe than others. I use to not be able to walk by baby isles in Walmart or even see a woman on tv holding a baby. But I can now. You will get there too I time. You may alwys remember it. I know I will. But with time Ionly got better. I hope the same for you dear. And sorry for any typos I am typing on an iPod.

Post # 6
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11391 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Ah so many typos for this iPod so sorry I hope you can understand what I meant/was trying to say.

Post # 7
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595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

i know is not easy. But there is Hope for us. i took dance lessons (honestly dancing saved my life emotionally) i have to admit im the worst dancer in the class, but i really enjoy it, and made me feel better, i dont know why but it helped.

i just gave birth to a baby girl, 2 months ago, and i couldnt stop thinking about my m/c during preganancy and labor,  wondering how he would be and all that.

we kind of stop ttc for a few months after m/c and 6 months latter i was pregnant again. 

i will be happy to help, or talk any time!! i read,took some therapy, did some painting and dancing lessons, and it really helped me to expressed my feelings, and felt a littlee better.

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