Post # 17
I should probebly make this clear, I don’t have a problem with cleavage, I have a problem with too much. I am very thankful not to have cleavage so I have no problem and busty girls I’m all understanding that there’s only soo much you can cover without appearing to be a nun.
However, I should tell you I was at a wedding awhile ago (about a year) where the bride leaned over to give me a hug (I was sitting down at the table) and her boobs came right at my face! I saw everything, and unfortunatly for her the best man did too and let everyone know about it. It was terrible and I felt awful for her!
Post # 18
Yea but she thinks she looks hot and didnt think twice about any of that!!
Im with ya on this one girl. H-a-t-e it !!
Post # 19
Big boobs, little boobs, huge butt, flat butt, teenie waist, less than teenie waist, it doesn’t matter, no one looks good in a poorly fitted dress.
Post # 20
You mean this ISN’T sexy??? 😉
Post # 22
I think you hit the nail on the head. It doesn’t matter your body type, your perceived flaws or attributes. Get somthing that fits properly.
Post # 23
Meh….they are just boobies and its not my wedding day. If you want an ill-fitting dress and you want to have spillage, good for you.
Post # 24
I don’t have a problem with cleavage, but I DO have a problem with ill fitting dresses. As a wedding photographer, I see it all.the.time. Then brides are upset when they think they look fat in their wedding photos.
WHY on earth bridal consultants put so many women in strapless dresses is beyond me. I have a large chest, and so I can totally relate. It’s a shame, because a dress can be so gorgeous but you never even notice because it’s so ill fillting. Amoung several fellow photographers, we call it “side boob”, because it’s such a common problem with people who don’t have proper fitting chest area in their dress and are spilling out the sides.
Post # 25
- Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry
My breasts are on the “petite” side, and my dress has straps, but I’m still getting double sided tape for the big day- don’t want any surprises when I bend over.
Sometimes alterations can really affect the bust line- last wedding we went to the bride ended up showing more than she wanted, and wasn’t happy about it-but once the dress was altered, she really didn’t have options.
Post # 26
Yeah i have big breasts too and in a wedding dress, especially one with a sweetheart neckline, it is really hard to keep them contained. Even with doublestick tape and a bra that was two cup sizes larger than i needed, it still made me have in-your-face cleavage. Its really hard to deal with big boobs and wedding dresses. Although that one picture someone posted is just ridiculous, no sense in putting them entirely on display.
Post # 27
I think that it’s really the decision of the bride…..not sure why it offends you so much…I’ve seen cleavage on SYTTD and it didn’t offend me….some women want to look really ‘bridal’ in the classic sense, and some want to look bridal and sexy at the same time….doesn’t bother me at all
Post # 28
I get what you are saying. I have no problem with cleavage, but I feel really sad for brides that have a dress that doesn’t fit properly and they nearly (or actually) flash people. I can’t imagine how embarassing that would be. As for brides that do that on purpose, I don’t understand that. Why would you want to be pulling up your dress all night? Why would you purposely want your boobs and side boobs spilling over your dress so that your nipples are almost visible? To each their own I guess, but it still makes me cringe.
Post # 29
Being a busty girl myself I can say that it is hard to cover em. Im modest so I always have to wear shirts that are bigger to accommodate my chest and when I do, its ill fitting everywhere else making me look bigger than I really am. When I stood as a bridesmaid I got a size 6 dress that fit everywhere else except my chest, was too late to order a larger size and I looked horrible the whole night lifting my dress up. So I understand the hard to cover em up part and I also agree that they look better covered up…its a hard situation lol
Post # 30
its only uncomfortable if the band is too small around your rib cage. How smooshed your boobs are has nothing to do with comfort. Its embarrasing and irritating but not uncomfortable.
Post # 31
I am busty as well but I sure as shit get things altered to fit my body. It looks so, just blah to see a bride in full make up, hair, and all that then see her in a dress that is ill fitting with her boobs hanging low/ hanging out/ dress falling down all night.