(Closed) For those who waited: How has it been since you got married?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
818 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

We waited for our wedding night. It was awkward, but that was probably more about the never seen each other naked and a stressful day and …etc.  We’ve been married just over a year now and everything is great.  Did it take a little to get everything figured our? Yup.  Was waiting worth it? YES.

Hope this answers some of your q’s.

Post # 4
7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

How would you know what was better or normal if you’ve only had one partner? Not to cause drama or insult anyone, but how do you know? I mean yeah it feels great and you orgasm, but how do you know if you are getting mediocre or mind blowing sex? 

Post # 5
5822 posts
Bee Keeper

@Miss Tattoo: I’d request you start a new thread for that topic.  That is clearly not a natural course of conversation on this thread.

Post # 7
971 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

@Miss Tattoo: if you’re sexually satisfied with your partner, what difference does not knowing if he’s the “best sex” out there make?  You’ve waited and don’t know the difference between good and bad sex, so as long as your enjoying, it’s all good.

My Darling Husband was my first partner and I was his.  I think we have mind blowing sex.  He thinks we have mind blowing sex.  I don’t know.  Maybe someone else would think we’re mediocre in bed.  We don’t know any better, so if we both find it mindblowing, then it must be mindblowing!  I have no complaints and neither does he.   So why would it even matter that what I find mindblowing, someone else might consider mediocre?  Isn’t it how WE feel about it and not how each other compares to someone else? 

I don’t know any better and neither does Darling Husband.  If I’m happy with our sex life, and if he’s happy with our sex life, and we find our sexual escapades mind blowing, then that’s all we need. 

I’ve only had one partner in my life and I can tell you that our sex lives have dramatically improved since our early days of fumbling around.  Is the sex mindblowing?  We think so.  We have nothing to compare it to, so if we’re enjoying, what more do we need?? 

Post # 9
17 posts
  • Wedding: October 2010

I didn’t have pain the first time (wedding night) and it was nice, although it was a little awkward til we got the hang of it. Now it’s great! And it was worth waiting!

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