- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
Lately, I’ve been seing a lot of post with titles similar to the following:
“Is he cheating on me?”
“Is this abuse?”
“Am I being strung along?”
“I cheated, should I tell So?”
I just want to say, particularly when it comes to your fiance and the words “trust” or “abuse” if you have to ask, the answer is yes. If you can’t tell if you are being abused or not, maybe just assume that something is incredibly wrong in your relationship, and get out.
If you don’t trust your fiance and feel like he is lying to you, whether he is or not barely matters. You don’t trust that person. You can’t have a relationship without trust. Get out.
Just, stop finding excuses or looking for validation of your fears. I’m begging you. Go with your gut- particularl if you feel that someone is intentionally hurting you. Don’t take the time to ask “is it?” Take the time to remind yourself that something feels wrong! Take care of yourselves!