(Closed) Found box of FI's ex love letters and cards. Read em?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I think I’m missing something here. What about these things would make you feel bad? If they’re just letters from her to him, they’ll be all about how awesome he is and you clearly already feel that way. If they are letters from him to her, then I get it.

Also, I think it’s pretty normal to stash away this type of thing and then forget you have it. Don’t read anything into it.

Post # 18
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

NO…take pictures and post them here so WE can read them!!!!! I LOVVVVVVVE Snooping & reading….PLEASE!!!!!!!!

Post # 20
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

If you read them, what good would come of that? I’d leave them in the trash and quit stressing about them. If you go through them, you’re only going to feel worse. 

Instead of reading those, write him some sweet notes of your own!

Post # 21
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MrsSanchizel:  no good will come of this! of course, i’d do it anyway. i’d do it anyway, in secret, and then cry and whine about it, bitch to my best friends, and then eventually bitch to Fiance about some dumb relationship he had years before we ever met. i’d be irrationally angry and sad and jealous.

at least i think that’s what i’d do. maybe i’ve matured, though. let’s hope so. HA!

anyway… it’s a terrible idea, and you know it’s terrible. tell him you found it and have him get it the hell away from you so you can’t be tempted/tortured.

Post # 23
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

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@ForeverAndEverAfter:  hahahha +1! 

but seriously… don’t do it! or do it… no don’t! don’t be a masochist like we would lol

Post # 25
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

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@MrsSanchizel:  i feel the EXACT same way! But you know what… THEY are not together anymore. And honestly, like another poster mentioned, these guys probably have no clue that they kept this stuff. If I were you, I wouldn’t read it and I would either toss it or stash it. Hugs to you! I know what you are going through 🙂 

Post # 27
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

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@MrsSanchizel:  just tell yourself it’s someone else, because it is!  He wasn’t the man you wanted to marry then, he was on his way to you, and begrudging someone you love’s former relationships is silly, or am I to assume he’s been your one and only?

Post # 28
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

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@MrsSanchizel:  Hmm… Can you go tell your Fiance that it’s bugging you and he needs to take the stuff away from you? Then go do something to distract yourself. Definitely stop checking this page…

Post # 29
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

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@MrsSanchizel:  Burn it! Haha! 

Post # 30
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Sugar bee

Don’t read them it will only lead to something bad 

Post # 31
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@Hbomb84:  Yes! I like this, burn that sucker and roast marshmallows or weiners over it! 

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