(Closed) Found naked pics of so on his phone :(

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 272
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Busy bee

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@BakerBee16:  Because it was a birthday surprise and she was gonna jump out of the cake for them to have a threesome, that’s why he didn’t discuss it with her!  GOD why don’t you trust him???

See how ridiculous this sounds?

Post # 273
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@BewilderedBee:  Take some deep breaths, get some air and clear your head.  Think about what your gut felt like throughout this whole thing.  Remember the shadiness of him soliciting partners, sending your picture to others, hiding things from you, lying to you, texting for HOURS with another woman and sending naked pictures of himself and receiving similar pictures of her naked.  Remember those things clear in your head when he tells you his story.  He’s manipulating the situation.  Classic manipulative behavior is turning it back on you – YOU confused him, he did all this for YOU.  That’s bullsh!t.  Please don’t buy it.  Clear your head and remember all the things he did.  Those things are real.  His story is not.

Post # 274
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wow.. he had that excuse up his sleeve there didn’t he? Well done asshole.

Honey if he was doing something that wasn’t a big deal he wouldn’t have been deleting conversations. Period.

Post # 275
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

OH MY GOSH. This is terrible! I agree with PPs I hope you told people or someone you were going to confront him about this! Please let us know that you are ok afterwards! ((hugs))

Edit – I must have missed the last page of this thread… Seriously you need to leave this guy. He is up to no good. Even if you joked about it once while drinking, he shouldn’t have just gone and done anything about it without confronting you first. That is not ok. It seems like you caught him in the lie and he is making excuse after excuse regarding his behavior.

Post # 276
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

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@Dizbee:  Yep!

OP, Please don’t believe him, he’s a LIAR. He got caught LYING. Now he is trying to say it’s what YOU wanted and YOU confused him. No, no, no.

Post # 277
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@Pepperwoodsy:  +99999999999999999999999999!

You hit the nail on the head. He knows she’s still emotionally attached, I believe he got a tip-off, and he’s making flimsy-ass lies to cover up…

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@Dizbee:  +1 TRUTH! Keep on bringing in the facts, ladies. We’ve got to combat his BS with sense…

Post # 278
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

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@Dizbee:  “if he was trying to get this girl to do a threesome with you, why didn’t she know he had a fiancée”

Totally, If that is the reason he is talking to this chick SHE WOULD KNOW IT. He is lying.

Post # 279
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I still stand by one of my previous posts… There is what you want to believe and the truth.  I’m sorry, but the truth is that a lot of what he said does not add up! If he was honestly doing it for you because he thought you wanted it he would have never lied about the pictures when you initially confronted him about them!

And the fact that the woman knew NOTHING of you means he wasn’t planning to involve you at all! He is lying through his teeth. Don’t be blindsided by what you want to hear.

Post # 280
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m not going to join the chorus of people telling you to leave him because only you know whether there is something worth saving.

But i will say that his story is complete and utter BS. 

Good points from the PP’s.

1) Why did he lie about the photo’s?

2) If he was arranging a threesome, then why didn’t Kansas know about you?

3) And who arranges a threesom behind one of the supposed participants back?

4) Why would he get up in the middle of the night to do it while you’re asleep?

Post # 281
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Hey girl…my heart hurts for you. He is not demonstrating love or commitment to you. Don’t spend your life with someone who doesn’t put you first. Be strong. We are all here for you. Don’t be manipulated.

Post # 282
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Helper bee

Wow!  He sent a picture of his penius to another girl to show how much he loves you!  What a super guy!  I wish my SO would do the same thing!  I know nothing makes me happier than when he sexests other women, just to make me happy!  And later we can all have a 3some together.  I hope its on my wedding night!  NOT!!!  

Wow, the lying is practically pathelogogical.  And its ridiculous.  I think the best way to know his story isn’t true is that the Kansas girl didn’t know you existed.  I think he was tipped off by his friend who also has his back and is lying for him.  This was the best thing he could come up with, and its total crap.   

Even if this is true, it is no better than him cheating on you physically.  He sent a picture of his dick to another girl without your knowledge.  He also sent pictures of you to creepers on the internet for 3somes.  He’s endangered your safety and betrayed your trust.    

No, no and no.  His excuses are BS.  I’m so sorry you are going through this, but call him out.  He is a total slimeball.  

Post # 283
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Wannabee

@BewilderedBee:  Wow……this is all kinds of messed up. Just when you think you know somebody. We’re all here for you! 

 

Post # 284
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Here’s a problem…. He said he wanted a threesome. 3 people knew about this, your So, Brett, and Kansas girl. There’s 3 people.

The only person to not know? You. The only person he hid this from? You (and maybe Kansas)

Post # 285
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

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@Asia:  are YOU Kansas? 😛

(I’m just kidding, I just saw your location was Kansas XD OBVIOUSLY I’m the most observant person ever *covers face*)

Post # 286
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@strawbs:  Ha I noticed that too. I think
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@Asia:  needs to hunt her down.

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