(Closed) Found naked pics of so on his phone :(

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Having been with a guy who always had a “reason” for his behavior, I’m going to tell you that you need to trust your gut. This guy is not honest. 

Post # 19
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I’m kind of torn. Part of me says, “mmm, that’s suspicious.”

But then the other part of me says, “Have you ever seen a guy looking at himself in the mirror when he thinks no one else is looking?” It’s all muscle flexing and air guitar and him thinking he’s sooo cool Undecided. The pics could also just be an extension of that…

Post # 20
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Honey Beekeeper

Reading this makes me feel sick to my stomach for you. It just really, really sounds like a cover up of sorts. Always deleting of your messages/emails/photos is just suspicious behavior. Especially if he picks and chooses which he deletes.

Plus, you ASKED him to stop texting this chick and he blatantly refused? Not okay.

I’m so sorry girl.

Post # 22
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I think you should either accept his explanation and move on OR leave the relationship.  No snooping around.  Once you start going through someone’s phone records, the trust is gone. Its the kiss of death for a relationship.

Post # 23
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@BewilderedBee:   Trust your gut. 

Honestly, I really do  feel you have something to be concerned about here.  Maybe if only one of those things had occurred I’d say it may mean nothing.  But putting all those dots together seems to lead to one picture, and that picture is those two people are inappropriately corresponding with each other and are one step (or half step) away from what I consider cheating. 

I’ve known too much about too many people to not be suspicious of this behavior. 

Tell him to come clean with you about everything RIGHT NOW and don’t take any bullsh*t or “no” for an answer.

Edit:  Just saw he’s calling her “hot” on FB and texting her all night long.   WTF???   Definitely cheating going on here.  So sorry you’re having to deal with this.  Please don’t let him continue getting away with lying to you.

Post # 24
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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@BewilderedBee:  About a week ago when he was driving, I picked up his phone to look at the pictures he’d just taken of us and he grabbed it out of my hand and said he’d show them to me later.

Ding ding ding! Guilty! Of something. Not necessarily cheating, but he’s hiding something.

Post # 25
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Have you checked his facebook message archives?? Like when you go to delete, it puts them in a folder called archives…or it used to? Im not sure if it still does but you might check that. I would snoop too honestly. As someone who has been cheated on, it’s pretty easy to spot when you have that gut feeling. Especially because you have told him how it makes you feel and he doesnt seem to care.

Post # 26
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I have been cheated on before and these are some SERIOUS warning signs. Be careful and be prepared to leave if you have to. And remember that trust is everything.

Post # 27
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Helper bee

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@frommisstomrs.:  Have you ever been cheated on? I really, really hope you haven’t and never will. I’ve been cheated on by my ex repeatedly and it has caused enough emotional trauma to make me wish at times I didn’t find out anything at all. At least I’d have had a few days of peace and sanity instead of having my heart ripped out and stomped on again and again. 

Post # 29
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’d kick his ass to the curb. 

Listen to your gut. 

Post # 30
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I’m really sorry you feel like this. 🙁 I used to have the same issues with my ex. He would ALWAYS delete his texts and FB messages. Why would he do that if he wasn’t hiding something? My ex would always try to convince me it was nothing and i was “acting crazy”. Turns out, he was hiding something. Please, trust your gut.

Post # 31
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

hmmm. I don’t like it…

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