(Closed) Found out your pregnant but not TTC how would you feel?

posted 7 years ago in Babies
  • poll: how would you react?!
    OMG hurray!!! (secretly wanted this) : (47 votes)
    17 %
    Happy but cautiously so : (56 votes)
    20 %
    NOT the right timing, things happen for a reason : (72 votes)
    26 %
    Neutral about it : (3 votes)
    1 %
    Not happy about it : (30 votes)
    11 %
    Will seek out options not ready to be parents : (39 votes)
    14 %
    Other... : (2 votes)
    1 %
    terrified!!! O_o : (28 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 62
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    It is not the right time now, since I just started grad school, but I think we would keep it. It might take a little while for it to sink in/get excited, but if it is meant to happen, then I probably should not fight it!

    Post # 63
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    3977 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Somewhere between terrified and not happy.

    Post # 64
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    26 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    I was very, very, shocked – but it was the best thing that ever happened to us.

    Post # 65
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    1064 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Actually it’s something i think about. My body is still getting used to the new birthcontrol – patch  – and i get crazy bodysigns that makes me sometimes wonder if i could be pregnant. First emotion: terror.. we have 3 kids, combined, and we don’t wan’t another due to age and money. But still..i sometimes wonder..what is it with weddings and babies?????

    Post # 66
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    84 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Happened to us 8 months before our wedding. Fiance didn’t take it so well at first, especially when we had things underway for the big day. I was happy, but I took a little time to settle into the idea all the same. Our wedding plans changed so many times it wasn’t even funny. In the end we’ve postponed it for a year. 

    Post # 67
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    10363 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    When I got pregnant unexpectedly, my now husband and I had already discussed what we would do – abortion. We went through with it, and are so glad that we did!

    Post # 68
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    1782 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I think I would be so happy – I would be in tears, then I my Fiance would be concerned why I was all in tears, I would tell him, and we would both be in tears. More of the scared, excited, nervous, I love you tears 🙂

    Post # 69
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    10452 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    I’d be on the phone to the doctor immediately scheduling an abortion. Don’t know if I ever want kids, and certainly not now. Pregnancy really freaks me out too.

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