Found pics of bf with a girl

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
9619 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

How old are the pictures? Do you know who the girl is? 

And most importantly – what did your SO say about it when you asked him? Because you have to ask him about it. We (internet strangers) can speculate all we want about it but ultimatly none of us know your SO so none of us are going to be able to help you find out the truth.

Post # 4
9619 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

Well, if you don’t want to wake him up I would at least see if you can figure out how old the pictures are because it might help ease your mind if they are from before your relationship.

Post # 5
4644 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

The photos don’t have a date stamp or info in the properties? I would either wake him up and ask, or do a bunch of digging and investigating to find out more for when you talk to him. 

Post # 6
7644 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

foodie90 :  Usually you can get the date of the photo from its properties. Right-click on it, I think.

Either way I’d ask him later. Even if they are old photos, they shouldn’t really be kept on his computer in an easy-to-find spot. (Possibly an honest mistake though).

Post # 7
1181 posts
Bumble bee

You need to find the date on the photos.

im all for communication and everything, but if he’s the sort of guy to have photos taken like that whilst he’s with you then he’s not the sort of guy who is going to be honest about it. 



Post # 8
365 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

If he is asleep, dig first!  They may be really old pics however, if you ask him, you have then only got his word for it.  If he’s the type of person who would take pics like this when you are together, then he is certainly the type to lie about it. Don t leave it to chance.  dig dig dig.  You may even find the answer you want and he is completely innocent! 

Post # 9
482 posts
Helper bee

Yeah I second dig, dig, dig!

In case you can’t find the pics date,

What hairstyle, clothes does he have in the pic? Have you seen those clothes? Bougth while you were together? Old or new blankets or pillows? 



Post # 10
347 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Are you digging!? 

Post # 11
729 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

I hope you found the date on those…keep us posted bee!

Post # 14
6806 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

Okay is he awake now? Can you talk to him? It’s not like you were snooping. They just popped up on his computer. Be honest and tell him about it and see how he reacts. 

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