Post # 1
So, I was doing work on my SO’s laptop as I left mine in office today. I was looking for a document when the picture folder started playing a preview of photos in it and there it was photos of him in bed with another girl. (She was fully clothed) And photos of her alone too, goofy intimate photos etc. Not sure what to think now. Kinda freaking out.
Post # 2
How old are the pictures? Do you know who the girl is?
And most importantly – what did your SO say about it when you asked him? Because you have to ask him about it. We (internet strangers) can speculate all we want about it but ultimatly none of us know your SO so none of us are going to be able to help you find out the truth.
Post # 3
hikingbride : i have no idea who she is. Im not sure how old the photos are, i just closed the laptop right away freaking out. He’s asleep, so I haven’t talked to him yet.
Post # 4
Well, if you don’t want to wake him up I would at least see if you can figure out how old the pictures are because it might help ease your mind if they are from before your relationship.
Post # 5
The photos don’t have a date stamp or info in the properties? I would either wake him up and ask, or do a bunch of digging and investigating to find out more for when you talk to him.
Post # 6
foodie90 : Usually you can get the date of the photo from its properties. Right-click on it, I think.
Either way I’d ask him later. Even if they are old photos, they shouldn’t really be kept on his computer in an easy-to-find spot. (Possibly an honest mistake though).
Post # 7
You need to find the date on the photos.
im all for communication and everything, but if he’s the sort of guy to have photos taken like that whilst he’s with you then he’s not the sort of guy who is going to be honest about it.
Post # 8
If he is asleep, dig first! They may be really old pics however, if you ask him, you have then only got his word for it. If he’s the type of person who would take pics like this when you are together, then he is certainly the type to lie about it. Don t leave it to chance. dig dig dig. You may even find the answer you want and he is completely innocent!
Post # 9
Yeah I second dig, dig, dig!
In case you can’t find the pics date,
What hairstyle, clothes does he have in the pic? Have you seen those clothes? Bougth while you were together? Old or new blankets or pillows?
Post # 11
I hope you found the date on those…keep us posted bee!
Post # 12
There’s no info on the properties to get the date, and I definitely do not want to keep looking at the photos any longer. And the background is some place I do not recognize, he just looks like him. He always has the same hair though.
Post # 13
foodie90 : This doesn’t make sense? It’s not your bF?
Post # 14
Okay is he awake now? Can you talk to him? It’s not like you were snooping. They just popped up on his computer. Be honest and tell him about it and see how he reacts.
Post # 15
pinkcorsage : i was referring to the previous bee’s post about his hairstyle etc