Found something on computer..

posted 6 months ago in Emotional
Post # 2
287 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

I would feel uneasy about all of this, without trying to assume he is guilty.  

I don’t know how I’d proceed…maybe go to tinder and try to search him?  Or have google search that image to see if it’s anywhere else on the internet (like they do on the show Catfish) to see if you can find out a bit more if you’re thinking he’d deny it even if it were his.  

Either way I’m sorry that this is something you’re dealing with.  Hugs.  

Post # 3
244 posts
Helper bee

Unless he has a legit non bs excuse for that picture.. he may be cheating :/. 


Or maybe he screen shotted it because he found out someone used his picture to cat fish? But that would be pushing it and pretty far fetched.

Post # 5
4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Sounds suspect to me. 🙁

Post # 6
922 posts
Busy bee

I’d be jumping to those conclusions. You need to confront him, and be prepared for the worst. Unfortunately Bee, I think what you’re thinking is the exact truth.

Please take care of yourself, and your kids first. Don’t let him manipulate you. Stick to the facts of what you found, and demand facts back – not sob stories or half-assed apologies.

Stay strong – the hive is behind you!

Post # 7
3443 posts
Sugar bee

Right click the photo to check properties to find out when it was created. 

That can be done right? Or am I making it up?

Post # 8
1400 posts
Bumble bee

There’s nothing reasonable about this. You should go to your doctor and get tested for std’s.

Post # 10
256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

I’m sorry you are going through this. One thing you can check is if these photos are on his fbook profile. I haven’t been on tinder since I met my FH but you need a fbook for tinder. And that’s where they pull the photos from. 

I would definitely confront him and ask what it is from. Good luck!

Post # 12
975 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

Ooooh, I’d be hunting through Tinder for proof and then confronting him. This doesn’t look good. I’m so sorry. 

Post # 13
600 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

I’ve had two experiences like this, and both times it turned out they were on the sites. For one, it was the beginning of the end and for the second it was the end.

I broke up with both of them and they were really upset. I don’t really understand how you would be on those sites unless you were willing to risk a breakup but clearly I run my life differently than those two.

So sorry this is happening, Bee. I can’t imagine any other explanation for this. Even if someone used his photo to catfish, why would it be in a folder on your computer?

Post # 15
203 posts
Helper bee

Google image search the picture and see where it leads.

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