- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
This makes two bridesmaids who are still questionable as to whether or not they will be attending. I’ve moved 32 times in my 25 years of existance and have made some incredible friends over that time. So instead of picking my current friends I decided to go with my best friends over the years. My Maid/Matron of Honor, who has been my best friend for about 11 years is a definate yes. Another bridesmaid I’ve known practically my whole life is another definate yes. Then there’s another long time of 11 years close friend who lives in Oregon and I’m in South Carolina, she doesn’t know if she will make it given the distance, and I understand but am already confused by this as to what to do anyways. Well then bridesmaid number four. She lives 2 1/2 hours away, has been a good friend for about 9 years and I asked her on June the 12th, and have gotten no response from her still! Granted I sent the invitation through facebook, but explained that I wanted to give her a heads up since she lives a little ways away. It was a long email about her friendship and what she means to me etc etc and told her to keep an eye open for formal invitations soon. She already gave me her address to send the invitations to, we just haven’t confirmed our location to have them printed.
It’s been 16 days and I have heard nothing from her, what do I do? No yes or no response. If it’s a no, it’s alright I do have a few other close friends that I was trying to choose from. But I kind of would like to know as most of my side will be from out of town and I feel that I should ask them ahead of time since they live so far away. idk what to do, having two bm’s who may or may not show, one who hasn’t even replied to if she will try, What do I do?