(Closed) Four months?! Ugh

posted 10 years ago in January 2010
Post # 3
445 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2007

I don’t think it would be pushy at all! I had the same sort of issue – the guy who owned our reception place was a little unorganized, and I was worried that he wasn’t going to get all of my details correct. So I called him CONSTANTLY. It may be just another wedding to the location coordinator, but this is the happiest day of your life, and you want it to be perfect.

I also had my best friend’s wedding 2 weeks prior to mine, and my former roommate’s wedding a month after mine in which I was bridesmaids in both, so I totally know how you feel with all of these events around the same time! I don’t think that you’re being too pushy at all, and I’m sure she’s had worse brides who probably call her every other day!

Post # 4
699 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t think you are being "pushy" at all. Just explain to her you like to plan things in advance, you have these other things going on as well as the holidays. Ask her if it would be ok to meet 6 months before and if she insists on the 4 months, very politly tell her that you would like an exception made because that would just make you too nervous. I think she will understand where you are coming from and it sounds like she is a nice person and quickly answers your questions anyway!

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