(Closed) Four weeks to go and starting to feel very stressed

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2856 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Hey Girl! First off, BREATHE!! You are not alone. Many brides (including myself) have been there and you will be OK.

When was the last time you walked away from all things wedding? If it has been a while, then take a few days off and relax. This actually helped me out a lot. If this doesn’t work you just have to remember that everything will work out and not everything will be perfect.

I am sure you will be OK. Good luck! Yay, to 4 weeks left!

Post # 4
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2015 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I feel you! We’re a 9-26-09 couple, so we’re also at the home-stretch. About a week ago, I was at that point, too. I was incredibly stressed, people weren’t RSVPing, and even though like you, we have almost everything done, I was getting emotional. My Fiance suggested a day trip, which seems crazy a month before your wedding, but actually, I’m excited about it. I’ve decided what I need is a day-off from wedding stuff. We’re packing up the car and the doggie, and driving an hour to our favorite beach and laying out in the sun, reading non-wedding magazines, eating a packed picnic and bonding with nature all day.

Sometimes, you just need a break from wedding stuff, and when you get back, you feel refreshed and recharged.

Post # 5
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2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I would designate a couple days a week No Wedding Days. Say Tuesday and Thursday you don’t do anything wedding related. Do something relaxing. Go to a movie with your fiance or just got to park. Do a non-wedding related hobby. Grab a coffee with a girlfriend and ask all about what’s going on in her life and don’t talk about the wedding. Just little things to help you feel refreshed and relaxed.

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