(Closed) FREAK flag flying! Fetish talk!!

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Yup! But I won’t share it publicly hahaha ๐Ÿ™‚ We’ll just say if you’ve heard about it, we’re into it.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

@kateisstoned:  +1 ๐Ÿ˜‰

When you’re together a long time, doing the same old stuff gets boring. Sure, move positions around. It’s still just sex. You’ve got to add more variety. We wonder why men watch porn…

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

@jesssamesssa:  Absolutely. It always baffles me how prude like people (usually women) get about sex. It’s like, omg I can’t do that. Why? Because you never have before? I feel bad for anyone who has a partner like that. The whole idea is to be open and explore, not to say no before it’s even attempted. I mean things between a couple, not more extreme things like introducing a third (or fourth…) party into the picture.

Some things I thought I would never like have become my favourite things. Fiance and I have a rule – no saying no. It’s a safe environment to explore whatever we are thinking about. A life long commitment to one person – and being completely monogamous – does take work and I really believe people have to open their minds. The rest of your life is a long ass time to spending rotating between 10 positions ๐Ÿ˜›

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

Tons. We are very kinky, fetish-friendly people – faaaaar from our fairly vanilla exteriors. But I’m not going to talk about it on the Bee ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

My Fiance is Vanilla….and I am….Rocky Road! I get upset he wont talk dirty to me, but I deal with it. I get him to spank me though….

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Yes. Many fetishes interests 

Currently we are living in a female led (fem dom) relationship. It’s great! Any questions, just Direct Message me or ask on here. I’m very open 

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee

@BoxerLady:  +1

Whenever he or I think of something new, or something different to do, we always do it at least once. Some things arent exactly our bread and butter, but you never know until you try! Wink

For example, I didnt know I liked my hair pulled until I met him! And its something we do pretty often, we both like it!

 

I understand some of them trying to keep it on the DL when they are closet freaks, but when they blush at the mention of a BJ? Its suprising

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

This doesn’t always involve sex, but there is a tie-in.  My SO and I are ANR.  Cool  I think he was a bit nervous when he brought it up (it links to another kink of his that I’ve been aware of for some time), and was pleasantly surprised when I was receptive.  Since I’ve never had children, we’ve induced once with the Newman-Goldfarb protocol, but we used the accelerated protocol (35 days) and had very erratic schedules at the time, so I wasn’t able to maintain a decent supply for more than about a month.  Now that the structures are in place from the N-G protocol, we’re trying out inducing manually.  It has been quiet enjoyable so far, though no results yet (and we’re not expecting any any time soon, since manual induction takes a lot longer than pharmacological induction)!  We both really gain something from the intimacy of it.  It’s (obviously) a big turn-on for him, and for me it’s more about feeling like I’m nurturing him (similar to how I feel when he’s sick and I get to take care of him) and being close to him in a very particular way (though that doesn’t mean it’s not enjoyable in other ways, too).

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Definitely. ;D Not all pain is bad…

Post # 14
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Busy bee

My SO and I are pretty heavily into BDSM, and we are both into corsetry (I’m a tightlacer with a 17 inch corsetted waist – been doing it for years). I agree with everyone else: if you’ve been together long enough, you’ve got to work to keep things spicy!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

@jesssamesssa:  +1, I didn’t know what this meant either. That whole post was greek to me. I can’t look it up right now, so I’m glad you explained it, lol.

@Liss13:  Agreed. I keep my really secret fetishes (and rooms…lol) to myself, but not because I’m embarassed. It’s because I don’t want to deal with any more shocked prudes who give me horrified facial expressions and think a BJ is being kinky. It’s just easier to be silent about it.

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