(Closed) Freak out led to a good talk

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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2622 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I am glad you had that conversation. I do think you can have the best of both worlds in this case. You can have your wedding and a small affair at the same time. 

Enjoy!

Post # 4
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3265 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Some of our best conversations have come from my freakout moments. It’s unfortunate they’ve happened that way, but at least they’ve happened! Welcome back to the ohhh sooo lovely waiting.

Post # 6
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5428 posts
Bee Keeper

Great conversation! He probably didn’t want a big huge deal and thought you did… (Don’t all women want big weddings, a $20,000 party with lots of bling?) And all you want is a small simple deal…. Glad both of you found out you were on the same page all along…. On with it, I say! LOL

Post # 8
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5428 posts
Bee Keeper

@sleepingbeauty88:  We are paying for our own wedding and I think it’s budgeted to a mere $1000 only… so no big bash for me, I don’t want it.

EDIT – Courthouse for us too!

Post # 9
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285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Agreed that freakouts often lead to the most productive convos. When I was a waiting bee, I had a particuarly memorable one, and in the course of talking it through I realized that the main reason he was stalling on proposing was b/c he thought that as soon as we got married I would want kids, which is absolutely not true. Sometimes it takes a freakout to realize where you both actually stand and where the middle ground is. Glad to hear you guys are back on track

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