(Closed) Freaking out!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
661 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Hi! I don’t have any advice but am in the same boat as you. I personally just want to elope with my Fiance alone. However he says he needs to think about it because he doesn’t want to exlcude family. The whole thing just makes me anxious but I told him I would give him some time to figure it out because I don’t want the marriage to start off on the wrong foot.

Post # 4
2494 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@cheesewine:  I think you need to tell your family how you feel. If they are the ones who want the big bash, then let them know that they need to help you to plan it, because you don’t have help from your Fiance and you can’t do it on your own.

That being said, there is nothing, at all, wrong with eloping or city hall. Many a bride on this site has married there.

Post # 5
2493 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I didn’t want a wedding, but am going through with it for Fiance. For him it was about having all of our friends and family celebrating with us, on top of the fact that we’ve been together for almost 11½ years, now, and he thinks I “deserve” a big wedding. I’ve had a few breakdowns in the past 14 months of planning which opened his eyes to the fact that maybe we should have eloped (LOL!), but oh well.

Post # 7
30 posts
  • Wedding: July 2012

I know the feeling, My Fiance insisted we get married in Vancouver too!  I live in Yellowknife so it’s been a big pain to plan from afar.  Not to mention how costly everything is there.  If you can afford it get a planner.  I am using Jackie as a day of coordinator and she has been very helpful


If you need any information I have researched almost all wedding vendors in the greater Vancouver area LOL


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