(Closed) Freaking out a little bit..

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Yes, but you also should have checked up on her to ensure the ordering was getting done. Or if money was the issue you could have offered to “spot” her the money to order…

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@MrsPrince:  I would totally be annoyed.  What are your options now?  Can she still get the dress somehow?

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Hmm then I don’t know. Have you verbally asked her why exactly she has not?

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Honestly I think you should have just said listen Melissa, if this is about the money that’s fine I will buy it and you can pay 20 each week. If it’s not you’re going to have to tell me what’s REALLY up. I need to know and you have to tell me. I can help you out but if I don’t know I can’t help. So please what’s the deal?

Sending reminders has obviously not been sucessful yet you continue to do so. Why are you still trying that method if you’re good friends you should be able to get the truth out of her, then help her out with whatever is preventing her from ordering.

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Maybe she really doesn’t like the dress. You have to remember that no one really wants to offend the bride and tell (the bride) that they don’t like the dress she’s chosen. BMs in my opinion always try to be polite. That’s why sometimes you just have to go with what you like instead of other people’s opinion.

Now I think it’s wrong of her to not have bought the dress yet. What is her latest response? Is she worried at all?

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