(Closed) Freaking out and venting…

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
8584 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

Is she renting the home? This is the only way I can see her getting pushed out of her home so fast.

If she has a mortgage for the home, it can take 6 months or longer to have her removed from the home…. and if thats the case and she is being evicted soon, that means she knew about the eviction when she convinced you to have it at her place.

I would talk to her and get the full story.

Post # 5
Member
3122 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@kris325:  I think it’s fine to talk to her.  I’m so sorry you’re both going through this!  Would you consider paying her early?  Perhaps that would help the situation.  

Post # 6
Member
260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Definitely talk with you her about what’s going on. Hopefully she can reassure you everything will be ok for your wedding.

Post # 7
Member
11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It takes a LONG time to evict someone – whether they rent or own the house, even if they’re not making payment.

In this situation, I’d probably offer to pay her rent for this month and possibly next month to ensure I can have my wedding there!

Post # 8
Member
443 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Bless your heart for staying so calm during all these problems! I just posted a vent about losing our baker for the cake and feel a little petty.

Keep your head up and just remember that as long as you two are married at the end of the day all will be perfect!

And thanks for putting my problems in perspective 🙂

Post # 9
Member
1685 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Do you have a written contract with her?

That should give you some measure of protection as usually whoever takes over a property is required to honor any contracts.

Post # 10
Bee
1837 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012 - Oak Tree Manor

@kris325:  Aw sweetie, hang in there! The last month before the wedding is so stressful! I think the PPs gave you great advice, the only thing I would add is that if the venue were to fall through (and I really hope it doesnt!!!) you have your FI and your family at your disposal, and between you and your two families, you must have the phone numbers of all of the guests. You could divide the guests/families into lists and hand the lists to your FI and your parents to help call people and let them know that the venue changed. I’ve been to a wedding where the venue changed at the last minute, I got a phone call with the new details (location, time, where to park, etc.) and it really was no big deal! Everything is going to work out for you in the end and I know that you’re going to have a beautiful, memorable wedding. Hang in there!!!

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